Needing constant validation from friends that you don't suck also blows I don't recommend it as a personality type
It takes up a lot of your time and it's just it's not fun
Well you see my mother was a sassafrass, and my father the same.
Lily
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Mood swings blow
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Everyone needs validation sometimes.
I don't trust people who are constantly happy for no reason with no apparent external or internal motivation for being like that. Think about it like this: lawyers, used car salesmen, and politicians look happy way too often despite the fact that nobody likes them... yeah, no. I'd rather talk to the person who doesn't think that they're infallible because their first thought if I were to drop dead in front of them wouldn't be whether my organs would fetch a good price.
Its not even 'sometimes', if I'm not having lowkey existential crises I'm feeling like everything I do sucks.
You know what I'm just a big ol friendless loser having my bimonthly breakdown carry on folks :D
When I'm feeling sad or existential, I make jokes about willies on Internet forums.
It has worked nicely so far.
No man or woman is a solitary isle in a sea of isolation. Unless they're like Tom Hanks in Castaway. That must really suck.
Hopefully the idea that a random stranger who might be a total creep sympathizes with you help.
Well, you don't get anywhere by sulking.
Talking about your problems head-on and in-depth with the people you trust might work. There's always therapy, but then again, it's costly.
If their regular response is nothing more than a repetitive soundbyte, they're not real help.
*dick jokes.*
Talk about my problems are you serious get out of here don't ever talk to me or my crippling loneliness again
But in all seriousness, this was a while ago, I'm mostly over it. Whenever I try talking about it I inadvertently shut down though so it makes it hard to really get OVER it over it but still. Not crying. Feeling a little better about it. That's a start?
Indeed it is a start, my friend.
Perhaps trying to look at it from a different angle might help.
Maybe change the little things in your lifestyle, too.
But hey, what do I know?
Spurta
I know the feeling, man.
Fuckin' sucks ass.